Is it realistic for you to expect to find your soul mate?
It’s certainly possible, but highly unlikely unless you have a clear vision of exactly what you want and need. Here are some tips for heading down the right path towards finding an ideal mate:
Sit down and spend some time thinking about exactly what you really want from your ideal mate. Manifesting a relationship is all about connecting the dots. For one thing, a successful relationship should be based upon more than just looks and mutual attraction. It also requires sharing. That means having interests in common. Are you someone who is interested in art, exercise, concerts, or romantic movies? Whatever the things are that interest you the most, you will probably want to be sure that your mate enjoys them as well. Ask yourself which kind of person you would best get along with. Is it someone shy and introverted? Or, someone who loves to talk and is outgoing? These things are really important over the long haul because a true soul mate should be both a lover and a best friend with whom you will share the rest of your life together.
Have you ever gone out on a date with someone because a friend or family encouraged you only to be disappointed? While occasionally others can be helpful in making an introduction, you should be the one who is in charge of who you date and how you go about meeting them. This means you must become fully confident in your own abilities of attracting a partner. One way of doing this is through the principles of the Law of Attraction. Regardless of how you decide to attract a prospective mate, it should be with someone who shares many of your interests and has the type of personality that melds with your own. To do this you have to define your goal, stick with it, and then devise a plan to make it happen.
One of the best ways to find someone who is a potential soul mate is to ensure that you surround yourself with the type of people and friends who are positive and are compatible with your interests. While it may be true that online dating sites and services have resulted in some really good success stories, they also have had their fair share of failures. You have just as good of a chance of meeting your perfect match simply by making sure that you surround yourself with like-minded people. If you haven’t considered other alternatives, one of the best ways to meet new people is by participating in groups or events that interest you. These can include such things as attending wine tastings, art openings, joining a coed sports league, or taking cooking classes. You definitely have to be motivated and actively searching to find your soul mate. It is very rare that a great relationship just ‘happens’ when two people randomly bump into each other like you see in the movies.
Expect to encounter some adversity as well. Don’t be too disappointed if you don’t fit in with a group or that it turns out that some event or function that you chose to participate in really isn’t for you. You may also find yourself attracted to someone who doesn’t share the same feelings towards you. If that’s the case then they certainly are not your perfect match. And, likewise, never feel sad about rejecting someone who you are not attracted to. When this happens you should take it as a compliment and never be rude. You must always be honest and follow your own heart to be true to yourself.
Manifesting a relationship takes thought and honesty. You can only be happy with a mate who accepts you for who you really are. They should always be supportive of you and vice-versa. You should also share the same interests and have like-minded personalities so that your time together can be the basis for a long term, committed, relationship. You can never go wrong by focusing on what is best suited for you and your own personality. Relationships are a lot like building a house. You must first build them upon a strong foundation and then reinforce the structure if you want them to succeed.